I myself have never able to find out precisely what a feminist is. I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat.
Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.
Feminism, for decades of neoliberalism, has been a feminism of the Hilary Clintons and the Sheryl Sandbergs, which is basically breaking the glass ceiling while the vast majority of women are in the basement cleaning up the glass.
My name is Harvey Milk and I am here to recruit you.